『The Art of Loving』要約

Erich Fromm’s *The Art of Loving*, published in 1956, is a philosophical and psychoanalytic inquiry into love as a practice rather than a passive emotion. Fromm, a German-born social psychologist associated with the Frankfurt School, argues that modern capitalist society distorts love into a commodity exchanged on a market of personal attractiveness, and that genuine love requires knowledge, care, responsibility, and respect. The book opens by distinguishing love as an art—something one must learn and actively cultivate—from the widespread assumption that love is a matter of luck or spontaneous feeling. Fromm develops several distinctive frameworks. He identifies five objects of love: brotherly love, motherly love, erotic love, self-love, and love of God, analyzing each for its specific character and its potential distortions. He critiques the Freudian view of love as sublimated sexuality, arguing instead that sexual desire can be a manifestation of the need for union but is not identical with love. A central argument is that self-love is not selfishness; rather, selfishness arises from a lack of genuine self-love. He also examines love’s disintegration in contemporary Western society, pointing to features such as “love” as a team arrangement, the ideal of a frictionless partnership, and the use of “fairness” to mask alienation. The book’s final section addresses the practice of loving, listing disciplines such as patience, concentration, humility, faith, and overcoming narcissism. Fromm draws on psychoanalysis, Marxism, and religious traditions—including Jewish and Christian mysticism—to support his claims, though he presents them as reasoned arguments rather than empirical research. *The Art of Loving* remains one of Fromm’s most widely read works, valued for its critical perspective on love’s social conditions and its insistence that loving is an activity requiring maturity and effort.